Monthly Archives: March 2014

broken jars

We are all broken Jars…God works from the inside out mentally, physically and spiritually!



A cracked jar!  I know we have all seen broken jars; however, on Sunday night while at church during worship the Lord put an image in my heart.  There was a large urn sitting on an alter.  At the base of the urn were several cracks, slowly through the cracks liquid was oozing out of the cracked jar.  I saw myself putting band aids all over the jar.  The jar had band-aids on it trying to stop the leaking of the fluid oozing out.  At this point the Lord said I needed to quit trying to fix the leaks on the outside, it is an inside job.  I needed to allow Him to reglaze my insides to quit the oozing of my cracked job. 

There had been so much going on in my life I was truly overwhelmed.  Deanna’s surgery yesterday, homework is abundant and at times question what I…

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Fear to be me


I have lots of dents. My clothes aren’t in fashion. I don’t know really how to apply makeup or understand current trends. But God is at work and I have peace with who I am.

Fears have tormented me for most of my life and some I am working on in this moment. Growing up there were many things said and seen that effected how I perceived myself and if I was normal and accepted. One overheard comment from a classmates parent in 1st grade. Blaming myself for my parents divorce. Taunted by classmates for crying if someone looked at me. Not being included & invited to parties like the rest of the class. Being the stinky kid whose mom smoked.

Layers of instances and comments left me questioning am I good enough. Questioning my value to my community and even to my family. Self doubt, lack of confidence and fear of rejection….

Growing up my actions and words were consistent with my thoughts that I wasn’t acceptable and things that unpleasant things happened were my fault. I thought if I was good enough and showed my value I wouldn’t be rejected I would be accepted.

I spent the majority of my life attempting to prove my value to others and living out “I’ll show you” – please look at me “I’m important”. Please someone just love me right now unconditionally.

My aggressive personality and need to prove my value pushed others away in the same way my thoughts paralyzed me. But somehow I functioned in life and God brought people into my life to enlighten my heart and draw me to Him.

This week I have been thinking about fears in my life and how those fears currently affect my relationships with friends, family, coworkers, my community and with God. I maintain boundaries of safety for me with people because I fear rejection and ridicule. God has been working in me, before me and around me. God has brought comfort to me through several verses:

Don’t panic. I am with you. There is no need to fear. I am your God. I will give you strength. I’ll help you. I’ll hold you steady and

keep a firm grip on you. Isaiah 41:10 The Message


Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him and he will

direct your paths. Proverbs 3:5-6


Haven’t I commanded you? Strength! Courage! Don’t be timid! Don’t be discouraged! God, your God is with you every step you

take. Joshua 1:9 The Message

Right now – this very moment – I am loved. I am accepted. Unconditionally. God is with me. He loves me despite the fact that I have dents and my clothing isn’t in style,  & with or without make up. He doesn’t look at the scale when he loves me. I am His beloved and I am okay.